The issue of intimacy in long-term care for people with dementia: A nursing perspective

Abstract

Sexuality and intimacy are often overlooked in long-term care settings, especially for elderly individuals with dementia, despite their significant role in emotional well-being and quality of life. This article explores the ethical, professional, familial, and organizational challenges caregivers face in supporting sexual expression in dementia care. This article also discusses the importance of respecting residents’ autonomy while ensuring their safety and emphasizes the need for proper staff training, family involvement, and clear institutional policies to provide a supportive care environment. This article aims to contribute to the ongoing discourse on improving dementia care practices by offering actionable recommendations that promote intimacy as a core element of person-centered care.

Keywords

Intimacy / Dementia care / Long-term care

Funding

None.

Conflict of interest

The authors declare that they have no competing interests.

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